I need help with some place to stay. I have trying to get a divorce from my husband after 30 years of marriage. I stayed for the kids but my son is now 21. There is no reason for my husband to tell me that I am leaving my kids or splitting my family. He has kept me in the house like a mouse in a cage. I could never go out visit family except my mother. He made sure I never had money. He has his own vices for medicated himself i am so tired of it. though my whole marriage I have done everything to hurt myself. I guess to to feel that pain and not the pain he inflicted on me. I have no job. I cannot work because I had surgery and have had serious complications after the surgery. All he does is scream at me; but i scream back now. my kids who are older now say that I am instigating the situation by voicing my opinion. I have shut up for 30 years. I am a volcano about to erupt on him. Because I have no job I also have no money. I cannot get an apartment because who am i fooling. I cannot afford to pay rent! I have no where to go. My family or what is left of them Literally hate him. I think they hate me too for staying with him. He is verbally abusive. twist everything we talk about to make it sound like I start the problems. He is a con man that is what i call him. He tell everyone. I am the bad person in this marriage. but the only reason we been together this long was for the kids. Now they are older. My daughter is not independent. She is very dependent on us. Him for money. Me for moral and all other support. Yes I stayed also because I have no place to go. But now I am serious about the divorce. but did not think about what happens after. like where do I go. how do i pay rent, since I cannot work because of my physical and mental injuries. Believe me you do acquire alot of mental injuries staying in a relationship that is emotional damaging.
